Fruit in secondary

The short answer is…when it has reached the desired taste level.  Every batch of fruit is different and will require a different contact time.  I know this sounds dismissive, but there is no exact answer.  Fortunately, mead is quite forgiving and will hold up to numerous samplings and additions.  I have a lime mead that I added lime juice to 5 different times.  I kept tasting it and adjusting as I went.  BTW…this mead is going to second round of NHC so I’ll stand by this method.