How to get that "Enjoy By" hop strength while homebrewing?

Definitely an important factor.  I started using Tasty’s water profile for anything hoppy and it also really helped.

Big +1 to McDole’s profile. It’s very similar to Martin’s Pale Ale in Brun’water. I do find that I need to modify his profile a bit for Janet’s brown or the pH is a bit low for me.

I always bump the profile for Janet’s Brown to get a tad higher pH, too.